Christmas Was No Fun for Jesus

I’m always filled with mixed emotions at this time of year. I look forward to my children taking a break from their studies to relax and spend time with the family, and Advent is a wonderful opportunity to meditate on God’s amazing gift in sending Christ into the world.

But then there’s the the stress and the burden of everybody’s expectations. The house must be decorated. Gifts for our loved ones must be picked out, purchased, and wrapped. None of this can be postponed. December 25 is a firm deadline, and it can never be pushed back.

To add to the mayhem of the season, it seems that everybody has a Christmas concert, or a recital, or a party that they want you to attend. The calendar is crammed full. Nobody seems to have figured out that this month includes a very limited number of weekends.

But probably the thing that has always made me feel most ambivalent, or even negative, about Christmas time was the assumption that this was supposed to be a joy-filled season. For years, I felt guilty if the holidays brought me more dread than glee.

What turned my perspective around was the recognition that Christmas wasn’t exactly fun for Jesus. He was born in a barn. No innkeeper in overcrowded Bethlehem was willing to free up a room in which a poor, vagabond, pregnant woman miles away from her home might give birth to her son. The actual circumstances of Jesus’ arrival fell far short of  the perfect Hallmark holiday depicted on our Christmas cards.

When the stresses of the season begin to mount, I try to remind myself that I don’t have to censor my emotions for Jesus’ benefit. If the Christmas season leaves me feeling less than gleeful, I don’t need to feel guilty about it. I’m in very good company. Christmas wasn’t exactly fun for Jesus, either.

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Special Event This Sunday–“Behold, My Servant”

beck-carol-chrisPlease join me, along with fellow Bible teachers Carol Behrens, and Chris Poehls as we explore God’s answers to some of life’s most challenging questions. Enjoy conversation, Christmas music, and refreshments.

All ladies thirteen years and older are welcome to attend this FREE  holiday event on Sunday, December 4, 2016 from 6:30-8:30 pm at in the Activity Center at Faith Church.

Hosted by Heart of Faith,
the women’s ministry of
Faith Church
2125 E Chandler Blvd,
Chandler, AZ 85225

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Special Event–“Behold, My Servant”

beck-carol-chrisPlease join me, along with fellow Bible teachers Carol Behrens, and Chris Poehls as we explore God’s answers to some of life’s most challenging questions. Enjoy conversation, Christmas music, and refreshments.

All ladies thirteen years and older are welcome to attend this FREE  holiday event on Sunday, December 4, 2016 from 6:30-8:30 pm at in the Activity Center at Faith Church.

Hosted by Heart of Faith,
the women’s ministry of
Faith Church
2125 E Chandler Blvd,
Chandler, AZ 85225

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Praying for Our Leaders Without Wrath and Dissension

I Timothy 2:1-2 & 8
“First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity…. Therefore I want the men in every place to pray, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and dissension.

I had never understood why the Apostle Paul felt it necessary to include that bit at the end of this passage regarding praying for leaders and those in authority “without wrath and dissension”–until now. It had always struck me as a strange afterthought. Of course Christians need to forsake being contentious and unite in prayer, but what has that got to do with politics? Everything!

Just because the election of 2016 is now behind us, do not suppose that all of the vitriolic rhetoric that’s been hurled back and forth between civilized people will simply evaporate. We are doomed to keep on pointing the finger and calling one another nasty names, unless we start being intentional about forsaking wrath and dissension.

Until the election was over, I was afraid to let anyone know that I had voted early for a write-in candidate. My conscience compelled me to vote in such a way that I could respect myself in the morning, even if my candidate had no statistical chance of winning. I chose to cast my ballot for someone who appeared to be a person of integrity and with whose values I agreed. I kept this to myself precisely because I didn’t want to hear the barrage of criticism I knew my decision would have elicited. I didn’t want to be told that I was “Throwing my vote away,” or “Enabling the wrong candidate to get into office.” I knew I had voted my conscience. I committed the outcome of the election into God’s hands.

Christians have always had differences of opinion about the moral decisions they must make on a daily basis. The Bible teaches that certain issues are not core doctrines of our faith, but matters of conscience.  In such matters, “Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind.” (Romans 14:5)

I believe that the people who voted for Donald Trump had what they felt were compelling reasons for doing so. Those who voted for Hillary Clinton also had reasons for their choice. I hope all those who voted on Tuesday were fully convinced in their own minds and that they have clear consciences about how they cast their ballots. But that is not for me to judge. As it says in Romans 14:4-5, “Who are you to judge the servant of another? To his own master he stands or falls; and he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.”

Instead of persisting in the wrath and dissension which have characterized this long and grueling presidential race, it is time to unite in sincere prayer for God’s mercy on our nation. I know I have never been more thankful that my true citizenship is in heaven. Let us continue to pray that the freedom to practice our faith in America will be preserved so that many more may be welcomed into the kingdom of God.

 

 

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Have Mercy, Sovereign Lord: A Prayer for America

Dear Abba,
I pray for my nation. I confess that we have rebelled against the rulers you established over our forefathers. Our spirit of pride and rebellion has carried forward and become entrenched in our national self-concept. Please forgive us for our arrogance.

Holy Lord, we have rejected all fear of you. We have defied your laws and ordinances. We have declared your word irrelevant. We have murdered the innocent. What your word calls an abomination we have established as an honorable estate. We have raised ourselves up to judge you and your ways instead of humbling ourselves before you and submitting to your correction.

Lord, we are a haughty people. We deserve your judgement. I recognize that the current presidential hopefuls are the kind of leaders we have deserved because of our pride. Please restrain the evil that either candidate can accomplish if elected. Please stand in opposition to the evil one and his dark agenda for this country. Restrain his power to steal, kill, and destroy in America.

Please protect the freedom Christians have to live peaceable and quiet lives and to practice our faith unhindered. I ask this not for the sake of our personal peace and prosperity, but for the sake of your kingdom. Protect the freedom we have to proclaim your truth and to share the gospel without fear. Protect the freedom to speak out about you and your word and your ways in the public forum. Please tear down the strongholds and lies of the enemy and establish your truth.

I beg for your mercy. I know that nothing is beyond your power. You can transform impossible situations. Sovereign Lord, I pray that you would do the miraculous and unexpected. We look to you, because you are the only hope for the future of this country. Please do not abandon us.
Amen

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How to Pray for Elections: Lessons Learned

I can still remember the 2000 presidential election. On the morning of that brisk Tuesday in November,  I gathered with a large group of moms in the park to pray. While our young children played on the swings and the monkey bars, we poured out our hearts before God. All of us saw this as a critical crossroads in the future of our nation. The outcome of the election would shape the America in which our children would grow up.

We prayed fervently, passionately, about the issues that burdened our hearts. Our prayer meeting concluded with a thunder clap, as ominous, dark clouds rolled in, driving us to gather our kids and scurry indoors. We felt certain that the God of the universe had heard our prayers. But it was far from over.

The next morning I woke up expecting to learn who had won. But something unprecedented had happened. Neither candidate had secured the solid majority of electoral votes needed to claim victory. Nobody could say for sure who would become President. The eyes of the nation turned to Florida, the single swing state whose electoral votes still hung in the balance.

At church that Sunday, many of my friends were anxious and upset about this strange turn of events. We had already cast our ballots, and raised our voices in prayer. It seemed there was nothing more we could do. Except pray. I invited the members of my Sunday School class to join me again for a prayer meeting in the park. None of them showed up.

In the end, one fellow mom and I continued to pray together about the still undecided election. We met for several weeks in a row, imploring God to bring resolution. In time, God answered our prayers. George W. Bush became President of the United States. The crisis had passed and the country moved forward.

For the sake of balance, I must also tell you about how God led me to pray in 2008. I remember distinctly the point in that presidential campaign when I felt God was telling me to stop praying for the republican candidate to win the election, though I had been praying fervently for that outcome. When the savings and loan scandals came to light, God seemed to be saying that the old guard had proven themselves poor stewards of the financial responsibilities which had been entrusted to them. Their corruption had been exposed and they were about to be judged for their crimes.

“I have heard your prayers,” God seemed to say, “but My answer is No.” Regardless of how I voted, I was certain from that point on that Barak Obama would be elected President, whether I agreed with his politics or not. The old guard had failed and it was time for new leadership.

Jesus told us to pray at all times and not lose heart. Most Americans are pretty bad at this. God has been reminding me that I need to rekindle the burning desire I once felt to intercede for my nation.  I need to approach our current election with that same passionate dedication I had to pray without ceasing in 2000. I need to persevere in prayer, remaining steadfast and resolute as I implore God to establish His will in America as it is done in Heaven.

This time around, I can’t say I  have any clear insight about who God will place in power when all is said and done. Nobody holds the moral high ground. That in and of itself may be evidence of God’s judgement on our nation; we are reaping what we have sown.

However, there are some things that are undeniably God’s will. In I Timothy 2 we are told to pray for kings and all who are in authority. Why? Because “This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.” (I Timothy 2:3-4)

No matter who ends up in the White House, you and I can pray with confident conviction that our freedom to practice our faith and share the gospel will be preserved.  We can pray that the truth about God’s character and His word would not be diluted so that people everywhere can come to the knowledge of the truth. We should pray for this passionately, continuously, and with bold assurance because we KNOW without a doubt that it is God’s will. He has already told us so.

This is the confidence which we have before Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.  And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him.” (I John 5:14-15)

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Your Prayers Count for More than Your Vote

“The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord.”
Proverbs 16:33

Everyone seems to be up in arms about the impending presidential election. There is a great deal of chatter about it on Facebook, and the consensus from both my conservative and my more liberal friends seems to be that no one is thrilled with our options come November 8. The question is, what should we do about it?

We seem content to argue with one another about the merits of voting for this or that particular candidate, even though deep down most of us recognize this is an exercise in futility. Few are persuaded by these arguments because most voters already have their minds made up.

But are we doing the one thing that we know can change the course of history? Are we humbling ourselves and praying to the One who ultimately controls the outcome of this election and the future of our nation?

I know I haven’t been praying nearly as fervently as I ought. I’m anxious and distressed over the state of my country. The utter lack of integrity and moral fiber displayed by the nominees grieves me. But have I spent hours on my face before God about it? Have I fasted?

The answer, I’m ashamed to admit, is no. Despite my anxieties over the presidential election, I have not devoted a single hour of my time to concerted, focused intercession for my nation. I have not missed a single meal.

Do I really believe, as I claim, that God is able to do things far beyond anything we can ask or think or imagine? If I have the faith to recognize that He’s the one in control, and not me or my fellow voters, not even the political system, then my responsibility seems obvious.  I need to beg for His mercy on my nation, now more than ever.

So this is my confession: I have not interceded for my nation with prayer and fasting as I know I should. But I intend to change that. Will you join me?

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Thank You, Blue Ridge Bible Church

img_0792-croppedAs soon as we arrived in Kansas City, Stewart and I were welcomed into the home of Pastor Scott Sundin and his wife, Kelly.  It was great to reconnect with them, since they are long time friends whom we had not seen in many years.

We had the added blessing of meeting Tom, the sound guy, who took care of all our audio visual needs. It was clear that Tom is one of the many unsung heroes who tirelessly serves the body of Christ. He creatively worked out all the glitches in our PowerPoint presentation, and even produced really cool swords for us to use as props to demonstrate how God wants husbands and wives to fight back to back.

We also met Julie, who serves in Blue Ridge Bible Church’s women’s ministry. She had already read A Wife of Valor, and was extremely enthusiastic about our upcoming presentation. She scrambled her team of ladies on very short notice to decorate the fellowship hall, transforming it into a beautiful harvest-themed banquet room.

On Sunday, Stewart and I were blessed to present two messages, one during the combined adult Sunday School hour, and one after a potluck lunch.

The feedback we received from the people in the congregation was very encouraging. One man said, “My wife and I have not had a lot of conflict in our relationship, but the idea of fighting back to back is new to me. I’m excited to hear more.”

In the first session, we shared our testimony of the lessons God has taught us in our twenty-nine years of marriage. Afterward, one young mom told me, “I really appreciated your story. My attitude going into marriage was much like yours.” After the second session, which focused on practical steps to fighting back to back, the same woman shared that, “The concept of speaking blessings over my husband was something I had never heard before.”

A final highlight of the trip was being able to pray with a woman whose husband suffers from bi-polar disorder. When she heard that this had been a part of my personal journey, she shared the struggles her own husband is now facing. Stewart and I were able to spend some time praying with her at the end of the afternoon.

All in all, we had an amazing trip. It was exciting to see how God is working to build up His body, both far and near, and to play a small role in that work by serving Him with our talents and gifts.

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Blue Ridge Bible Church Marriage Seminar

hawaii_couple_beckandstew_croppedJoin Rebecca and Stewart Bruner this Sunday, October 9, 2016 for a two-session marriage seminar at Blue Ridge Bible Church in Kansas City, Missouri.

In the first session, Stewart and Rebecca will discuss the important role God designed marriage to play in His war against the forces of darkness. They will share personal testimonies about how God has used the crises in their marriage to help them mature in their relationships with one another and with Himself.

In the second session, Stewart and Rebecca will focus on six habits married couples can practice to cover one another’s backs in the spiritual battle. Learn to defend one another from enemy attack by practicing the following habits:

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  • Giving Thanks
  • Speaking Blessings
  • Offering Encouragement
  • Practicing Forgiveness
  • Praying Together
  • Recalling Truth

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